tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1855227607022882091.post2501746818219969584..comments2023-06-03T07:55:02.439-05:00Comments on Community for Coaches: Where Have All the Leaders Gone? (by Coach Ryan)Community for Coacheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10010464202952295659noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1855227607022882091.post-68798610450807334112014-11-25T13:26:53.960-06:002014-11-25T13:26:53.960-06:00Kids today in general don't have enough respon...Kids today in general don't have enough responsibility, they don't have a simple weekly chore list, it teaches responsibility. Parents and kids are too busy, too rushed to the "next". They struggle to function as leaders, why? Cuz parents are leading too much, pushing too hard, providing too many options, too many games and in general losing site of the "foundation" in our kids today is WEAK.... How do we fix the crack in the foundation? It starts at home, but unfortunately the parents are blinded and are just chasing the "DREAM" more than Johnny or Sally. They often times want off the "Dreamcoaster" but mommy and daddy have them signed up and booked up through the winter, spring and summer!! <br />I hear it all the time in "church", hmmm there is a place that builds foundations well. :) Many athletes today are lving someones elses dream, all for affirmation and acceptance of mommy or daddy.... Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10708131750735332310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1855227607022882091.post-27503260982043755692014-11-25T11:35:06.403-06:002014-11-25T11:35:06.403-06:00Absolutely, we grade school coaches have to help t...Absolutely, we grade school coaches have to help them become leaders, empower them to keep their teammates "accountable" and in line within the sport they are all playing, "each" spot, each person has a specific job, and WE hold one another accountable, i might be to "block" or "block out", or to be at the "mark" for the trap, empowering kids to say, Johnny you have to be here. Too many leaders are in the stands, but honestly they are not leaders at all, they are the world of arm chair quarterbacks that outcoach their NFL and College coaches, but in reality, they are just broken people who struggle with control, struggle with anger, struggle with letting Johnny "fall" and fail, they blame baseball coaches for NOT being fair to Johnny with playing time or NOT making him GREAT, ah heck, lets just move lil Johnny to a NEW TEAM. Did you catch that, new team, new coach, new teammates, unfamilair, quiet and quite honestly "isolated" until he gets to a point of comfort, opens his wings to become a leader, wham, new team, new coach, thanks mom and dad for never keep me stable enviroment, where I could actaully become a leader, team jumping is so awesome isn't it... Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10708131750735332310noreply@blogger.com